I have been in an on-and-off, long-distance relationship/friendship with "Guy" for three years. It all started in 2016 when I was traveling Europe for two months. I received a message from him on a dating site, and we emailed back…

Two years ago I had my first boyfriend (I'm now in my early 20s). We were together for one year but I broke up with him because he was kind of possessive. I also had insecurity issues and was jealous…

We love the same music, we love going out, and we are both very easygoing and share the same humor.

I didn't realize how much until I caught myself totally daydreaming about her on a Saturday.

I'm for sure busier than him – in school, working full time, and going to the gym. But I always make an effort to reach out.

She met some famous athletes at a casino bar.

He did put a ring on my finger as a sign of commitment, but I only think he did to gain time.

We've lived in the same city as friends, as a couple, and in different cities as a couple. That's why I feel we work so well – because we've had variation.

I know that now is not an option, but I don't want to be wishful for a later.

I could be very well getting ahead of myself, but it's kind of nice to think about.

He was a government contractor who had to work throughout the shutdown. So, for the longest shutdown in history, I was super patient and supportive.

I don't think I'd love anyone else either, so it's not a case of not finding the right guy.

There has been no affair, no abuse, no addiction issues.

What do I do when I feel like apps have completely destroyed the dating landscape for 20-somethings like myself?

But as each day passes, it becomes harder and harder to pretend like these feelings for him aren't there

Should I stop by his job in the next few days and ask to have a calm conversation and ask why this happened?

Four years ago, I developed a crush on a coworker, "Cal." Cal and I were in the same department and started a friendship. Our coworkers were all around the same age, so we would all go out every once in…

I want to see him, but I am also afraid those strong feelings will resurface and that I'll have to start all over again.

How many sacrifices do you make because when things are amazing, they are amazing?

... he had been telling me that he was getting divorced, so I stopped taking my birth control

I'm not good at it and I don't enjoy it, and he gets frustrated with me for not playing the game well enough (basically me dying very early into every round).

I pray that someone creates a dating app for people who are seriously not into having children.

When I'd get upset and stop talking during these moments (how I deal with him upsetting me), he'd always apologize for his behavior.

I feel so terrible and guilty about this because I know my current partner, "Jack," is the one.

Is this just because there is so much history that my brain is reliving the good times?