He is my first love and I am completely shattered.

Updates from two former letter writers.

Hi, I'm a married women with kids. I've been with my husband for 15 for years and have had a crush on his very close friend for almost five years now. It all began ages ago when the friend and…

He has a group message with them (the men and their girlfriends and significant others), and they communicate with that group text every day.

We had talked several times about kids, and the future and what we wanted. We clicked on every level.

I don't understand any of it. I truly don't know what happened or where things went wrong.

Recently, I've met someone who is amazing, makes me feel wonderful, and truly cares about me in every way.