I'm writing this sitting in my house alone with a Christmas tree up, which is just mocking me.

Do I tell her now how I feel, wait until her divorce is final, or wait six months after her divorce?

I am so afraid to leave my new husband. I think for the most part I don’t want to have another failed marriage.

On top of that, last September, I made a really bad decision and got in touch with an old flame.

The pandemic has been really hard on him and I don’t want to hurt him any more than I may have already.

All my friends think that I would have more success with a younger man. But THAT much younger?

We have given each other permission to date other people, although neither of us has pursued others. 

For the next 10 years, they called each other "husband" and "wife," even though they lived separately.

A philosophical question from a reader.

On our wedding day, I remember feeling unsure whether I was marrying the right man for me, but at that point I just thought I was nervous about the wedding.

A few weeks ago, I demonstrated an inability to perform, which caused our evening to wind down rather quickly.

They're now best buddies who co-parent two adults, who, in my opinion, are simply rude.

"When a girl says she can't go out because she has to do laundry, pay bills, food shopping, etc., is that a sign that she is seeing someone else?"

I'm closing in on a two-year divorce anniversary.

He left his wife and his unhappy marriage, and he started dating me a couple months later.

I am hoping you can advice me how not to intervene in such way that come across as interfering.

I know deep down I'll always be hoping we can reconcile.

I want that partner who will be around until my dying day.

In 2021, I am no closer to my goal.

Six years ago I learned that my husband had been dating about a dozen women he met on a dating website for married folks looking to have an affair.

She said she knew there was a physical attraction there but didn't think there were feelings involved.

Read a letter from someone who compares her new boyfriend to her ex. Will this relationship last? Is it just COVID-19 companionship?

A few days later, we had our third date, and she stayed over. We saw each other again the next night.

I try to write him letters, try to talk to him, but it never works.

I've suggested some online workshops, workbooks, you name it.