I am finally feeling like I used to – the happy-go-lucky girl who loves to feel joy and be with engaging people.

I never thought it'd happen, and I know that I had a huge part in that.

She sent him pictures of food she cooks (which he later told me were for him). And then there were fart jokes.

In fact, during his seven-year marriage, he carried on a long-term, five-year affair.

He shows no desire to change this arrangement and I have kept mum, figuring that this is his business, and there's nothing that I can do about it.

I know most of you would say good riddance with affairs and forgeries, but it's still really hard.

We care deeply for each other and I see a very likely happy future for us. However, he is in a place where he is focusing on the now.

We should have gone to counseling. We should have fought harder for the relationship. Hindsight is 20/20.

It is unclear whether or not there were extra-marital shenanigans prior to the divorce.

I'm not looking to change his mind, just clarify more about where I'm at.

Conceiving their child is allegedly the first time they had sex in years.

I either need put this crush to bed for good, or decide if I want to wait for him to be ready to date again.

The issue is that John wants more from me than I can give at this point.

We decided to date exclusively after a couple of weeks. He told me he loved me within a month, and I told him that was crazy since he didn't really know me.

I do not want choose struggles in my future – no one willingly looks for struggles and pain.

To make matters worse, I can't stop thinking about a single coworker.

He says that there's nothing between him and his ex, and that they've both established that they are better off as friends.

Doesn't that sound awful?

He texted saying that he missed not having a glass of wine with me in the evening.

I have found someone who makes me want to leave because I want to date him openly.

He insists he is getting a divorce but due to financial reasons is remaining married "until we straighten it all out."

He told me not to come in because his daughter was there. He ended up meeting me in the garage.

What happens is that they end up telling me that they've found a pretty amazing woman and want to see where it goes with her.

I know my role as boyfriend is to be sympathetic and supportive and that's what I need to do. But it's nonetheless hard for me to hear her vent her anguish over losing him with me.

She decided she wanted to be celibate until we got married in the spring of 2016. This really upset me because we have been physical since the first day we got back together.