Hi Meredith, I’m 33, my boyfriend is 34. We went to school together as kids. We reconnected when we started talking through Facebook messenger, which led to texting, then calling, then three months later I moved in with him. He's…

But we also have a very toxic cycle of breaking up and getting back together.

I want us prepared to confront what will likely be judgement.

Dear Meredith,  My boyfriend and I have been together for about four and a half years. I am in my mid-30s, and he is in his late-30s. We are perfect for each other in all ways except one very significant…

... somehow it all still feels too fast.

Hi Meredith, My boyfriend and I are in our mid and late 20s. He's the best person I know; he's hardworking, a family guy, smart, funny, and a gentleman. We've been together a little over half a year, but have…

Hi Meredith, I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for more than four years. I started going to gym by myself because my boyfriend used to work a lot. Over a year, I developed a huge crush on…

I am 23 and from a small town. I am currently dating and living with my 24-year-old boyfriend on his family farm. We have been together three years. It has been a great relationship and he has been nothing the…

Hi Meredith, I'm a 25-year-old woman looking to find someone to settle down with, but I can't tell if I'm being too picky. Lately I feel like the grim reaper of dating because with just about every guy I've casually…

My boyfriend and I are both late 20s and have been together for three years. We have such a lovely relationship and he's a great man. I am so in love with him and he makes me feel loved and…

I'm in my early 40s and met this amazing guy. The relationship took off immediately. I adored him. He broke up with me, though, for putting pressure on him to have a child. He wants kids too, and I felt…

So I get to date ... neither of them?

Hello Meredith, I am a professional, divorced woman, early 60s, trying to meet an intelligent, kind, non-pretentious man for a serious relationship. There was a man I dated for almost two years – I loved him – but he repeatedly…

Furthermore, he has a life insurance policy where she is still the beneficiary.

There were certain aspects of our relationship that seemed incompatible when we first started dating, but those issues have really been at the top of my mind recently.

He moved out of their apartment and has lived separately now for about 13 years.

To him, it’s a non-issue, and keeping it a secret as a favor to ex was the least he could do.

We began enjoying more physical contact, but anything beyond a certain point was forbidden. Her faith taught her that you do not have sex with someone you're not married to.

And not in a "just take a Benadryl" kind of way.

I can’t imagine my life without him, so I may just bury this with me.

When we disagree, he gets incredibly defensive.

The problem these days is completing the task.

I really try to be patient and respond with love and care, but sometimes I feel myself absorbing his anxiety and stress, which is super unhealthy for me (I've got health issues of my own).

Have I no pride?

I don't think this is near enough to call off an upcoming wedding, but it's so frustrating!