There were certain aspects of our relationship that seemed incompatible when we first started dating, but those issues have really been at the top of my mind recently.

I just think of all the ways we will fight or problems we might have.

And not in a "just take a Benadryl" kind of way.

I know now that my late wife is the only woman that I could ever share a home with.

But she moved out after 10 months. She just took off.

When we disagree, he gets incredibly defensive.

When we moved in together, I already had trust issues.

I see that he just isn't a very involved father. It breaks my heart not only because his son is so sweet and silly, but also because my own father was absent and it had a big impact on my life.

I am really excited and very much in love, but I know there will be some adjustments going from seeing each other maybe once a month to living together full-time.

I'm still thinking about my ex. Last night I went through every letter and card she sent me. It was probably a bad decision because it brought back a lot of feelings. This morning, I find myself yet again in…

I don't know what to do, I genuinely love this person but don't feel OK initiating intimacy anymore.

... my dream is to be out there, where I've wanted to move long before we even started dating.

I don't want to ask him to move to where I'm from because I feel like he will resent me and feel the way I do now.

I am hoping you can advice me how not to intervene in such way that come across as interfering.

This morning he locked the cat in the bathroom for a timeout.

I have been helping out with dishes, cleaning, and other shared household chores as much as I can. However ...

Why am I so codependent with my family?

" ... it felt electric to be in control when I looked through his phone."

He has his future figured out, but I don't think I'm ready to give up mine.

I'm quarantined with my "boyfriend" of almost 20 years, and he has avoided me and ignored me the entire time.

The entry was dated just 10 days before our first date.

Through this time of social distancing, I've continued to see my girlfriend outside my apartment, in outdoor settings. 


He has said he wants to spend his life with me, and I guess I don't understand the line between that and marriage.

He does not seem to be trying very hard to get a job and gets defensive when I ask him about it.

I am worried that he will never let go and that he likes the drama of the situation.