A philosophical question from a reader.

While their communication was not overtly sexual at all, it made me feel extremely uncomfortable, insecure, and enraged.

"When a girl says she can't go out because she has to do laundry, pay bills, food shopping, etc., is that a sign that she is seeing someone else?"

He continues to act like everything is fine.

We've shared our feelings with each other and he does know that I'm married.

Six years ago I learned that my husband had been dating about a dozen women he met on a dating website for married folks looking to have an affair.

Doesn't get me overly thrilled to meet her at the altar.