Dear Meredith, I'm a bisexual woman in my first long-term relationship with my boyfriend of one year. I recently reconnected with an old friend from high school whom I had an intense crush on during my senior year. She ended…

I told him I didn’t want him talking to her and that if she reaches out to him again I want to see the texts.

He seems to drift in whenever we are closer geographically, or recently because COVID has everyone a little more bored than usual.

It's already 11 years later now; he is married, has a young son. and lives minutes from me.