When we checked with the minister of our church, we discovered that our relationship is in violation of the Ordained Ministerial Code of Conduct.

We had gone and looked at engagement rings four months before the breakup, and literally weeks before breaking up with me he had told me, out of the blue, that he had saved up $2,000 for a ring.

Maybe I should just bite the bullet and go for it, because it's not as if I'm not interested in having sex.

Admittedly, I think I brought up big questions too soon and I made him feel pressured and nervous.

She decided she wanted to be celibate until we got married in the spring of 2016. This really upset me because we have been physical since the first day we got back together.

It seems to me that our relationship is just a safety net for him in case the ex remains devout.