I want to believe him but I have this horrible feeling that he's lying to me.

You see, I get pretty obsessive when I like someone.

Then he said that he does not want to meet in person yet because I was already getting too emotional

I can still see his snap score and that it hasn't gone up, I know he hasn't been using the app.

How can he say he loves me and respects me and then talk about me like that for a few cheap laughs from his buddies?

I would probably be satisfied with a emoji or a one-word answer in response.

I'm at a point where I think I need to tell him to stop.

Should I agree to this? I love him but I don't think I did anything wrong.

What do I do now, believe her and attempt to regain her trust, or move on?

Dear Meredith, My wife and her friends traveled to Miami Beach to celebrate turning 50 this year. The other day at work, I received a call from the husband of my wife's friend. I think I have met this guy…

(He wasn't trying very hard to hide it, as he was texting her while I was there.)

Hi Meredith, Wondering what I can do about my clingy ex. She's a friend of some friends and we dated exclusively for about four months. She decided to go to grad school and I supported her decision, even though that…

I know he can't change overnight, but I am not done figuring out if it could work.

The problem is that that night after I got home, I saw he was "ONLINE NOW!" on Match.

Also, she has not told him that she is with anyone else because she said it would "hurt his feelings."

One morning, I decided to confirm my suspicions after the phone buzzed when he was in the shower. At least three women's names and explicit texts popped up.

The issue is what I can only describe as rated T for Teen. She loves to text all day, Snapchat, WeChat, Instagram, Facebook, Tumblr, etc. (you get the point).

He is afraid to set boundaries and hurt their friendship, but I feel his lack of action is disrespectful, and a real friend would understand how her flirtatiousness is unnecessary and being interpreted the wrong way.

Should I confront him about this and ask if he did?

I poured my heart out through text and he didn't respond.

I agree that it was very immature of me and I am not proud of my behavior, but isn't he equally as wrong for snooping behind my back? We cant seem to agree.

I have no idea how to bring this up to my girlfriend without her feeling insecure and threatened by what this might mean for our future.

My phone beeps when I have an online message — but he must've been online too, if he saw I was online.

It's like everything came to a screeching halt. He told me he knows me more as a person now, so it feels "different."

Mostly I ask him questions and he answers.